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Impostor Phenomenon: Coaching Questions to Challenge Impostor Feelings

Over the past couple of decades, the original term Impostor Phenomenon has mutated into being a syndrome. It feels very different to be told you have a syndrome than to learn you are experiencing a phenomenon. At Barefoot, we’ve been guilty of adopting the ‘S word’—but we’re now keen to resist the pathologisation of this all-too-human experience: the self-doubt and minimising of our own achievements that many of us encounter at different points in our lives. Clinical psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes first formulated the concept of Impostor Phenomenon in 1978 to describe the set of feelings and responses they found—at that time, in their research—to be particularly common in successful women. 

As coaches, we rarely meet a client who doesn’t question their competence at some point. The classic signs of Impostor Phenomenon include: an inability to internalise your accomplishments; a sense that others have an overinflated view of you; attributing success to luck or being in the right place at the right time; fear of being ‘found out’; feeling like a fraud; believing that the very fact you got the job must mean it isn’t that difficult to do; and focusing on what you can’t do, rather than valuing what you can do.

Coaching Questions to Challenge Impostor Feelings

  • If you know that everyone in the room had the same insecurity, how would that change your feelings and your outlook?

  • Which of your assumptions about yourself would your good friends challenge?

  • What do you gain by feeling like an impostor?

  • What evidence do you have that contradicts the idea that you are a fraud?

  • What strengths do you use that others might take for granted—but are actually rare and valuable?

  • How would someone who admires you describe your success?

  • If you were mentoring someone in your position, what would you want them to believe about themselves?

  • What are you proud of that no one else sees or acknowledges?

  • Who benefits from you feeling like an impostor? Who might benefit if you let that go?

  • What would it mean to own your accomplishments with humility and confidence?

  • How would you describe yourself if you were being as kind and generous to yourself as you are to your friends?

Have you found these questions useful?

You can join us, for our Women’s Development Programme to really explore imposter phenomenon, your own confidence and self belief. Explore more here.

If you think this could help your teams, we also run a Women in Life and Leadership programme within workplaces. You can find out more here.

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